And the winner is...

So I asked you how you would like to spend the day with me. The choices were, at work, at the spa or in my garden.

The most popular choice was... A day at the spa.






Atkinson's Spa House!







Before my beautiful cousin Lora and myself went along for our pamper afternoon, we went for lunch.
We opted for one of my favourites.









Strada!

Yummy...

After my lovely Spinach and Ricotta Ravioli and Lora's delicious Lasagna, we went to the spa.

The Pedicure

The Manicure

After two blissful hours spent relaxing whilst having feet and hand massage and paint we needed CAKE!!

Where else to go for truly scrumptious cake and tea...Papadeli's my all time favourite.

A Day with me...

I'd like to invite you to spend the day with me (a virtual day in Blogsville) its going to be a gorgeous week of sunshine and warmth.

You get to choose.

A day at work...

A day at the spa...

Or...a day in the garden...

What would you like to join me in doing? Leave your answers in the comments box and the most popular will get the blog of choice.

Pack your bag, we are going out for the day!

Hi Ho...Hi Ho...

1st May 2012. May Day, in more ways than one!

 I had to go back to work!

Am I ready for this?

Will I get all emotional when faced with my work colleagues?

How will they react towards me after a whole year without me?

A myriad of questions like these buzzed inside my head as I drove to the office.

The car park was chocker - the first challenge - where to park! Walking along the path to the main entrance I met someone I recognised from the 6th floor. He said 'Hello' as if he had seen me only yesterday and carried on his way.

Once inside I was greeted by a skeleton staff within our team. I work in a large building on the 5th floor. All open plan with various departments all set out in a large square.

Everyone was very quiet and slowly came to me to say 'welcome back' and give me a hug. It was lovely to see my dear friend Sharon. She had cleaned and prepared my desk for me.  "Lets make a cuppa" she said with a warm smile, I knew she was making me feel safe. Before I knew it I was back in the saddle so to speak.

I'm doing a six week phased return. Part time for six weeks and working from home when I can.  My biggest problem is the Peripheral Neuropathy (nerve damage) that I have in my hands and feet. Ive found holding the telephone for too long and using the mouse is causing cramp like spasms in my hands. Ive asked the Occupational Health GP for a 'Green Badge' which is like a Blue Badge for disabled parking but only temporary. I can then park close to the office building as the path leading to the main entrance is a disused railway track and a conservation area for butterflies. Its a little uneven.

Ive almost completed my first week back. The trepidation I felt was to be expected but it has been ok so far. Its the initial step of walking in through the door that's the hardest part. The next challenge will be attending the many meetings that my day usually consists of and trying to stay awake!

Celebrating 25 years - Bowel Cancer UK

In 1987 the charity Bowel Cancer UK was founded.

On Wednesday, 18th April 2012, we were invited to Westminster to celebrate the event.
Can you imagine my excitement?

We caught the lunchtime train from Bristol and arrived at Paddington station, London, two hours later. We hopped in a black cab and shortly arrived at the Houses of Parliament.

Queueing outside along with many other visitors I took the opportunity to take a few photographs. An impressive statue of Oliver Cromwell stands on the green at the...Cromwell Green entrance!

All visitors are subject to a rigorous security scan and bag search. Once you've been through security you enter Westminster Hall (link). You then walk the length of the building and climb the staircase at the end, which takes you to the Central Lobby.

At 4pm we were invited into the Dining room to start the celebrations. Guests included the host MP John Baron, the CEO of Bowel Cancer Uk(BCUK) - Deborah Alsina, Charlene White - ITN presenter and Patron, the BCUK team, invited MP's, Bowel Cancer survivors & Patient support and Pharmaceutical companies.

After an hour of networking the speeches began. John Baron MP started the speeches after a Welcome and Introduction by BCUK's Policy & Affairs Nick Bason. A major part of the Celebration included the launch of the 2025 challenge saving and improving lives report. This sets out the ambitious targets and call to action on reducing mortality, increasing survival rates and improving patient experience for people affected by Bowel cancer. John Baron MP opened his speech by saying how much progress BCUK has made in the last 25 years and congratulated the charity on all that it had achieved. He referred to the report produced by BCUK - 2025 challenge saving and improving lives. The report sets out what needs to be done, here are just a few of these bullet point calls to action:

*Detect and diagnose bowel cancer at an earlier stage
*Improve treatment rates for all groups of society
*Ensure access to the best treatments for advanced cancer
*Improve bowel cancer patient safety
*Help people recover from treatment
*Provide high quality palliative care
*Improve data collection
*Redouble research efforts

The next speech from Barbara Moss (Ambassador/Patient Support for BCUK) survivor was extremely moving. I had to control my emotions throughout as the tears welled up during Barbaras amazing story. You can read all about her journey in the book Barbara wrote called - "Who's been peeping in my bed?"

Next, with a very hard act to follow was Deborah Alsina the CEO of BCUK. Her speech was inspired. Her determination to achieve the challenges set out in the report were evident throughout her speech. The message Deborah delivered was from the heart. I cried openly as I knew that when she said she does all of this work because she cares about people, I knew that she did. Deborah has supported me relentlessly throughout my bowel cancer journey. Always reminding me to Believe. How she finds the time to support myself and many others like me I do not know. I don't think she ever sleeps! BCUK lead by Deborah are an amazing charity and their achievements over the past 25 years are nothing more than incredible.

The final speech was delivered by one of the Patrons of BCUK, Charlene White the ITN presenter. Charlene sadly lost her mum to bowel cancer when Charlene was young. Clearly the charity that she supports is very important to her and her support as she said will help other children from losing their mothers to bowel cancer in the future. It was another very emotional and moving speech.

To sum up the event, here are some of the descriptions used by attendees from an email expressing their gratitude to BCUK's Nick Bason, Head of Policy for organising such a successful and important day: Fantastic, Upbeat, Uplifting, Inspiring, Positive, Encouraging and Excellent!

I am looking forward to being more involved with BCUK in the future and helping this fantastic charity on into 2025!

Bring me sunshine, Bring me laughter, Bring me love...

What a week its been! Sunshine, beautiful, warm sunshine. There is nothing like a sunny day to make you feel glad to be here. In the garden all the plants and trees are beginning to grow. New shoots on my Clematis as it begins to climb the wall. The apple tree blossom is appearing on each branch. The strawberry plants are all a wonderful fresh green colour! Spring and the sunshine all helping the garden blossom.

We put up my little Gazebo this week so that I can sit in the garden protected from the sun. Chemo leaves your skin very sensitive to sun burn and damage. I'm all for skin safety in the sun anyway, even without chemo damage.

With my renewed energy and inspiration, Ive set up my easel and have been painting. I bought some new canvasses as I've got a few commissions to do. I cannot tell you how happy it makes me being able, once again to do the things I love most.

We've taken some gentle walks with Meg. Along the beach at Weston-Super-Mare, out towards the Estuary. We saw an abundance of Red shank feasting on the worms in the muddy sand. We walked around the lakes at Chew Valley. The Lords woods near home. Shaded by the trees as we walked around the lake and ate our picnic lunch. The sunshine really does make us all so happy.

Saturday I went out to lunch with my wonderful friend Sharon. You may remember her from an earlier Blog. Sharon had organised lunch and a manicure for us. We strolled around Clifton Village in the sunshine, laughing and chatting all afternoon. We even laughed our way through the manicure. Candy and Lisa the beauticians joined us and I'm sure every one in the salon could hear us laughing for the whole hour and a half! By the way,my French manicured nails look amazing. The hand massage Candy gave me has also really helped with the Neuropathy (nerve damage). My hands have been a lot less numb and tingly.
So laughter has been a huge aid in my recovery and shows how much I'm enjoying my new freedom.

I am always surrounded by love. I am so lucky to have the love and support from Mike, my family and friends. Also so much love from Meggy dog.

Mothers day was lovely. We went to my parents house for lunch and James was there also. James had called round on Saturday to see me, with a beautiful selection of flowers in yellow and orange. I didn't expect anything else on the Sunday. I took my mums card and presents and after lunch we opened our gifts.

A pretty card from James with words written with love from the heart made me cry. He had also made me a CD with a collection of my favourite songs and designed and created the cover especially for Mothers day. The day was full of love...all my days are though.

LOVE is all around me.
Sunshine, Laughter and Love...

Smile...

Where Have You Been?...

It's been almost a month since my last blog!
Where have I been?
What have I been doing?

The 12th and last cycle of chemo took the wind out of my sails completely. Friday 17th February 2012, a day of freedom! The chemo was disconnected and my PICC line removed (which took literally about 2 seconds and I didn't even know she had done it) all 2 ft of it. The relief was overwhelming. Symbolically this marked the end. I cried, Mike welled up and a young woman who was waiting to have her PICC care done also cried. She knew exactly how I felt in that moment.

After the initial euphoria, I felt exhausted. For the next week I slept and had little to no energy. I was surprised at how chemo cycle 12 had wiped me out more than any other cycle. I cried a lot. The usual post chemo week was horrible. I was so low, so lethargic and it frustrated me. Gradually I picked up.

When the following week came around, with no appointments to attend, it began to sink in. It was over! On the Wednesday( when I would normally go into the hospital for my chemo) in order to celebrate, I arranged with two of my long distance friends to do a synchronised 'Happy Snoopy Dance'! I sent out the dance steps and a little video so we all knew the moves!!! At 2pm Jo and Becks joined me in my celebration. How funny.

That week I also received a message via Twitter that Terri @freshchapter was going to be in Bristol the following week. We arranged to meet up for lunch if I felt well enough. Terri is from Canada but is currently embarking on a world tour. She has sold her apartment and all her belongings to take a year out visiting cancer patients in countries such as Vietnam, India, Peru, Rwanda.  Ive been following Terri's blog (www.afreshchapter.com) for the last 8 months. Ive seen her plans, dreams take shape and finally become a reality. Her blog is incredible and inspirational. I recommend you read it. So to finally meet Terri was a very exciting prospect. We spoke on the phone and arranged a lunch time meet. Mike drove me to the restaurant and waited with me until Terri arrived. This was the first time I had been out in public for 3 months. It felt so good and I felt so 'normal'.

Terri and I spent just 1.5hrs together talking about our own diagnosis, the side affects and  how it has changed our view on life. Terri told me about the people she had met and the countries she had already visited in the last 5 months and where her journey will take her next.  As we said our goodbyes I didn't feel sad but excited for her, inspired by her. We will keep in touch and I will follow her journey via her blog. Maybe one day we shall meet again. I hope so. I felt so positive having been in her company for such a short time. An amazing woman doing amazing things!

So now you know where Ive been this past month. Ive lots planned for the end of March and on into April. Exciting things, new things and some much awaited everyday 'normal' things! Planning the future puts a huge smile on my face.

 Ive finally landed back on Planet Earth...Hello World!!

The Life Boat has arrived...

'Suddenly I saw the LIFE boat coming towards me. After eight long months, trapped on this desolate, dark Island, it has come to take me back to the mainland. All of my family and friends are waiting to welcome me back. My new life is about to begin'...

Today was a good day. Today I cried again but this time with happy tears. With my final chemo cycle in sight next week, I received the news that my CT scan was all clear. Such relief for all my family and friends. Overjoyed, we left the Oncology unit with tears in our eyes and headed straight to my parents house.

I can now start to plan this year, knowing I'm safe to do so. Friday 17th will be my 'Day of Freedom'. No more appointments until 13th March for a check up! I'm happy that I will be seen every three months for the next year. Happy that I will have a CT scan every 6 months for the next two years. I will be monitored for the next seven years.

Its going to be quite a while before I recover fully. The oncologist said possibly a year due to nerve ending damage in my hands and feet. However, within the next two months I should be strong enough to go and meet up with all my friends old and new, visit my brother in Dubai, visit all the art galleries and exhibitions oh....and go back to work.

So, my next Blog will be post chemo...END OF!!!!